"It's my mother, but that does not give it the right to control my life nor Ptsrfaty, nor to dictate to my thoughts and confiscated my feelings and my feelings .." That's what you're saying most of the more adolescent girls to some of them or even say the girl to itself girls She feels that her mother "spy" or alien to her own life as a girl in her teens, and you see it has become more mature and become great. When the girl's adolescence up and made up her personality, and determine the orientations and interests landmarks, it will vary with her mother by virtue of its view that it developed with the change of the general concepts, and then begin their sharp discussions, and instructions issued by a mother who does not admire the girl is not implemented, but may resort to do the behavior of a deliberate may raise anger and ire of the mother. "
Tmrd..olkn their friends on the way!
One manifestation of this rebellion violent says or Dha- of Syria: "My eldest daughter, which now stands at 12 years old and I faced Patarr of rebellion! Where she did not want to wear Islamic dress or even modest, they always want to imitate Besdiqatha; because they wear tight and short clothes that highlight their beauty and femininity; we are always clashes with her father, and when I go down to buy and choose her clothes. "
The daughter Sarh- from Lebanon: "I do not like my mother; interfere with each hairpin own redundant manner, and also what I like it endorse or recognize my friends, I know they do it in order to know what becomes between me and my friends! The truth is I call this lack of confidence No more, no less!"
Thus compensate for its lack of the girl to her mother!
And between the mother and girls abyss, she feels that her mother is not in compliance cultures and orientations; you will find its match in the Journal of the girl talk about fashion, talking about love and love, and how you earn the love of others? Then stir this passion; it may find its match in the videos or find its match in contact with young people in the phone, or if there is a lack of this and that. In school you learn from some of her colleagues such behavior.
Says Misae- of Jordan: "My daughter of 13 years has always been superior, and you're close to it, but after that he brought her and her father device has its own computer, turning unchanged for the worst, and at one point opened a" tendency "of their own and found friendship requests from young people .., and "Mail" is sent to a young man says to him: "She loves him and miss him ..", and smashed into the act that they did not tell me although I was her friend .. "
.. Busy mothers and girls Dhaiat!
Says Mnar- of Egypt: "I do not remember that I participated with my mother in the dialogue, everything you do for me is to leave your expense me at my office .., they do not know that I need to speak with them. I have chosen my girlfriend Shatha substitute for mom to consult and listen , they are all something like: fashion, youth, love, study and even albums, and when they come up against something we do not know go to the Internet it answers without embarrassment or run away .. "
The Maha and the rest of Sidikadtha- of Bahrain Vojman that: "Mama always busy" but Achtlvin in the cause of concern, says Maha: "Mama is busy because it is a university professor, Her work consumes all its effort and energy, they do not bear my problems I and my brothers ..) The striking is "Kindergarten opinion" Vtall the cause of preoccupation with her mother, saying: "My mother is obsessed with strength, while it is at the gates of the forty and fear for her beauty Vtaatuad the Malls and beauty and fitness."!
Says Gadh- of Egypt: "I thank God I was able to get close to my oldest daughter, as well as the five daughters; became the oldest daughter tells me all that alarmed or concerned, as I periodically try to run her spare figured each month I give a book useful, and tell her: I am needed in order to summarize my book, I feel that they are happy to help me, as well as the end of each week have a private picnic with me alone. "
It adds Cefa- of Saudi Arabia: "My mother is very close to me Vohko her my concerns and is received with an open mind, and I Ostchireha in all Amaury; for I know very well that they are unknowingly Bmsalehta a major, and aware of everything is not like my friends; because my friends of the same age How can they know everything! "
Internet ... great danger!
I have been asked the teenage a status list for people who prefer to talk to them, and the surprise was that the mother is came in the final standings .., and I have this result indicated "unexpected" to a study by sociologists experts in the disruption of the relationship between mother and daughter.
I have many teenage justified in the fact that "mothers do not Anstn them", making friends and even the virtual world, which Nsjtah Wide Web - the "best haven for them" to unload the cargo and express what Araodhn ..
He was here Roa- professor of sociology - d. Alosman- Hussein, who led the study: "not to listen to teenage mothers to their daughters explains Khchithn know that things do not want on their own, Ctort daughters in romantic relationships, or be forced to answer questions is still a taboo in particular sex".
He continues, Mr. Hussein Othman: "This is more like" head buried in the sand, "It does not benefit even more complex problems, noting that the positive dialogue with teenage protects them from slipping .."
And agree with him Alostaz- Nasser Ahafie- coach adopted Candles Center for Human Development and a member of the club coaches company said: "The girl in adolescence need to be especially mother and her parents, they need to be authorized hear and broadcast her concerns, problems and feelings, especially since this stage are important in the human configuration, More importantly, that this phase may Atburam where mental illness, especially schizophrenia disease, as well as anxiety, tension, fear and depression.
Also, the mother a big role in dissolving the gap this topic, and in order not to turn your daughter to someone else, such as friendly or maid you following these means to achieve communication between you and your daughter:
- Patron of the intellectual level and then specify the target of the dialogue.
- Avoid talking with her in inappropriate circumstances.
- Orientation is not to blame your daughter in front of others.
- Stay away from a final threat and intimidation That would make it negative.
- Bonds, Babintk, and Agersai by social and religious values.
- Azari love her unconditionally ,, Kaltaqbil and the use of body language, and talk to them Kalrepett Eye.
Harkiha in the exercise of my favorite hobby!
In the end, he adds: "There are several negative effects may result from the poor relationship between mother and daughter, which are all the product of an abnormal relationship between them thus exposing the girl to a number of problems, most notably:
- Resorting to strangers, and may be the person who resorted his girl does not have the elements of guidance and advice.
- May resort to modern means of communication, which are double-edged sword.
- The girl may fall prey to hunt people at such times in troubled waters.
* Therefore the mother to open a wide door for dialogue with their children, especially girls, and give a wide margin of freedom for them, and the adoption of the upset them the elements of confidence, even if the mother offered her time to her daughter as provided for her work or even domestic work; what took the girl back to anything spoil her life, or to any advisor and listener does not rise to the status of compassionate compassionate mother.
Tmrd..olkn their friends on the way!
One manifestation of this rebellion violent says or Dha- of Syria: "My eldest daughter, which now stands at 12 years old and I faced Patarr of rebellion! Where she did not want to wear Islamic dress or even modest, they always want to imitate Besdiqatha; because they wear tight and short clothes that highlight their beauty and femininity; we are always clashes with her father, and when I go down to buy and choose her clothes. "
The daughter Sarh- from Lebanon: "I do not like my mother; interfere with each hairpin own redundant manner, and also what I like it endorse or recognize my friends, I know they do it in order to know what becomes between me and my friends! The truth is I call this lack of confidence No more, no less!"
Thus compensate for its lack of the girl to her mother!
And between the mother and girls abyss, she feels that her mother is not in compliance cultures and orientations; you will find its match in the Journal of the girl talk about fashion, talking about love and love, and how you earn the love of others? Then stir this passion; it may find its match in the videos or find its match in contact with young people in the phone, or if there is a lack of this and that. In school you learn from some of her colleagues such behavior.
Says Misae- of Jordan: "My daughter of 13 years has always been superior, and you're close to it, but after that he brought her and her father device has its own computer, turning unchanged for the worst, and at one point opened a" tendency "of their own and found friendship requests from young people .., and "Mail" is sent to a young man says to him: "She loves him and miss him ..", and smashed into the act that they did not tell me although I was her friend .. "
.. Busy mothers and girls Dhaiat!
Says Mnar- of Egypt: "I do not remember that I participated with my mother in the dialogue, everything you do for me is to leave your expense me at my office .., they do not know that I need to speak with them. I have chosen my girlfriend Shatha substitute for mom to consult and listen , they are all something like: fashion, youth, love, study and even albums, and when they come up against something we do not know go to the Internet it answers without embarrassment or run away .. "
The Maha and the rest of Sidikadtha- of Bahrain Vojman that: "Mama always busy" but Achtlvin in the cause of concern, says Maha: "Mama is busy because it is a university professor, Her work consumes all its effort and energy, they do not bear my problems I and my brothers ..) The striking is "Kindergarten opinion" Vtall the cause of preoccupation with her mother, saying: "My mother is obsessed with strength, while it is at the gates of the forty and fear for her beauty Vtaatuad the Malls and beauty and fitness."!
Says Gadh- of Egypt: "I thank God I was able to get close to my oldest daughter, as well as the five daughters; became the oldest daughter tells me all that alarmed or concerned, as I periodically try to run her spare figured each month I give a book useful, and tell her: I am needed in order to summarize my book, I feel that they are happy to help me, as well as the end of each week have a private picnic with me alone. "
It adds Cefa- of Saudi Arabia: "My mother is very close to me Vohko her my concerns and is received with an open mind, and I Ostchireha in all Amaury; for I know very well that they are unknowingly Bmsalehta a major, and aware of everything is not like my friends; because my friends of the same age How can they know everything! "
Internet ... great danger!
I have been asked the teenage a status list for people who prefer to talk to them, and the surprise was that the mother is came in the final standings .., and I have this result indicated "unexpected" to a study by sociologists experts in the disruption of the relationship between mother and daughter.
I have many teenage justified in the fact that "mothers do not Anstn them", making friends and even the virtual world, which Nsjtah Wide Web - the "best haven for them" to unload the cargo and express what Araodhn ..
He was here Roa- professor of sociology - d. Alosman- Hussein, who led the study: "not to listen to teenage mothers to their daughters explains Khchithn know that things do not want on their own, Ctort daughters in romantic relationships, or be forced to answer questions is still a taboo in particular sex".
He continues, Mr. Hussein Othman: "This is more like" head buried in the sand, "It does not benefit even more complex problems, noting that the positive dialogue with teenage protects them from slipping .."
And agree with him Alostaz- Nasser Ahafie- coach adopted Candles Center for Human Development and a member of the club coaches company said: "The girl in adolescence need to be especially mother and her parents, they need to be authorized hear and broadcast her concerns, problems and feelings, especially since this stage are important in the human configuration, More importantly, that this phase may Atburam where mental illness, especially schizophrenia disease, as well as anxiety, tension, fear and depression.
Also, the mother a big role in dissolving the gap this topic, and in order not to turn your daughter to someone else, such as friendly or maid you following these means to achieve communication between you and your daughter:
- Patron of the intellectual level and then specify the target of the dialogue.
- Avoid talking with her in inappropriate circumstances.
- Orientation is not to blame your daughter in front of others.
- Stay away from a final threat and intimidation That would make it negative.
- Bonds, Babintk, and Agersai by social and religious values.
- Azari love her unconditionally ,, Kaltaqbil and the use of body language, and talk to them Kalrepett Eye.
Harkiha in the exercise of my favorite hobby!
In the end, he adds: "There are several negative effects may result from the poor relationship between mother and daughter, which are all the product of an abnormal relationship between them thus exposing the girl to a number of problems, most notably:
- Resorting to strangers, and may be the person who resorted his girl does not have the elements of guidance and advice.
- May resort to modern means of communication, which are double-edged sword.
- The girl may fall prey to hunt people at such times in troubled waters.
* Therefore the mother to open a wide door for dialogue with their children, especially girls, and give a wide margin of freedom for them, and the adoption of the upset them the elements of confidence, even if the mother offered her time to her daughter as provided for her work or even domestic work; what took the girl back to anything spoil her life, or to any advisor and listener does not rise to the status of compassionate compassionate mother.
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