Difficult to be parents of a teen in crisis! Especially since this passage to the adult world is becoming more and more violently ... Why did he do his own way? How to help him find his bearings? A recent report tried to see more clearly ... Decryption.
Adolescence is a difficult time for young people, but also for parents, who must manage the ongoing conflict. Or that famous crisis seems more and more difficult to manage. False impression or effect of an increasingly violent environment?
The conflict despite himself ...
The crisis of adolescence adolescent crisis is essentially marked by the opposition: the teenager is looking and trying to find its place within the family and society. And this quest often involves conflict. So difficult for parents to remain calm in the face a young man who never listens and does as its head! However, this behavior explains, according to Philippe Jeammet, psychiatrist, this constant provocation is related to a paradox, "the fear of being abandoned if no one takes care of him and the fear of being under the influence, if the subject of the attention of others. " Although it seems search, know that these altercations affect it as much as you, or even more! Because the child has an hypersensitivity to the conflict. These confrontations often deeply disturbing.
Increasingly violent
If the adolescent crisis has always existed, it seems increasingly resented. Its manifestations are becoming more violent, reflecting a growing malaise. Is it because it is now even more complicated yesterday to find his place in society? Many observers stress and increasing behaviors and disorders resulting difficulties teen anorexia, bulimia, drug abuse ... According to experts, in 15-20% of cases, the teen can itself be overwhelmed by what happens to him and get into a downward spiral. While some took refuge in isolation, others express their discomfort by a more or less violent revolt. The most extreme manifestations (delinquency, suicide ...) fortunately concern a minority of young people.
How to manage this crisis?
This makes it increasingly difficult for parents to manage this transition to adulthood. If this is of course everyone to face the crisis of adolescence, some tips can help you pass this course. Be aware that the teen will spend even more serenely the crisis that possess solid benchmarks to which cling. And it is for parents to provide these tags. Starting with the image they give: difficult for a teenager to make his own rules of life that his parents do not respect ... and laying the banned when necessary, while more and more adults have chosen to become parents "friends" ...
And if you are having real difficulties to deal with this crisis, do not hesitate to see a specialist, including child psychiatrist. You can also seek advice from one of the "Houses of the Adolescent" who are to be born throughout France. You can also seek advice from the School of Parents and Educators, which offers a hotline and regularly organizes conferences.
Adolescence is a difficult time for young people, but also for parents, who must manage the ongoing conflict. Or that famous crisis seems more and more difficult to manage. False impression or effect of an increasingly violent environment?
The conflict despite himself ...
The crisis of adolescence adolescent crisis is essentially marked by the opposition: the teenager is looking and trying to find its place within the family and society. And this quest often involves conflict. So difficult for parents to remain calm in the face a young man who never listens and does as its head! However, this behavior explains, according to Philippe Jeammet, psychiatrist, this constant provocation is related to a paradox, "the fear of being abandoned if no one takes care of him and the fear of being under the influence, if the subject of the attention of others. " Although it seems search, know that these altercations affect it as much as you, or even more! Because the child has an hypersensitivity to the conflict. These confrontations often deeply disturbing.
Increasingly violent
If the adolescent crisis has always existed, it seems increasingly resented. Its manifestations are becoming more violent, reflecting a growing malaise. Is it because it is now even more complicated yesterday to find his place in society? Many observers stress and increasing behaviors and disorders resulting difficulties teen anorexia, bulimia, drug abuse ... According to experts, in 15-20% of cases, the teen can itself be overwhelmed by what happens to him and get into a downward spiral. While some took refuge in isolation, others express their discomfort by a more or less violent revolt. The most extreme manifestations (delinquency, suicide ...) fortunately concern a minority of young people.
How to manage this crisis?
This makes it increasingly difficult for parents to manage this transition to adulthood. If this is of course everyone to face the crisis of adolescence, some tips can help you pass this course. Be aware that the teen will spend even more serenely the crisis that possess solid benchmarks to which cling. And it is for parents to provide these tags. Starting with the image they give: difficult for a teenager to make his own rules of life that his parents do not respect ... and laying the banned when necessary, while more and more adults have chosen to become parents "friends" ...
And if you are having real difficulties to deal with this crisis, do not hesitate to see a specialist, including child psychiatrist. You can also seek advice from one of the "Houses of the Adolescent" who are to be born throughout France. You can also seek advice from the School of Parents and Educators, which offers a hotline and regularly organizes conferences.
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