No one said that raising girls is easy, especially when it comes to teenagers. The talkative preteen girl and cute as all you have known has given way to a creature with many complicated emotions, distant and defying your authority over the market. However, do not worry: many parents who have raised healthy adolescents, independent and unharmed. If you show enough love, understanding and a reasonable dose of authority to your teenager, you will build a strong and fulfilling relationship. To improve communication with your daughter during the period of adolescence, start with the first step below.
Part 1 of 3: Help her to feel loved and understood
1 – Give him space. Over time, your teenager will have less and less desire to spend time with you. Do not be upset because of this, this behavior is natural, there is nothing personal in the vast majority of cases. Your daughter Search more independence and unconsciously wants to prove its maturity those around him. It may now close the door of her room when she was not in the habit earlier or it can have private telephone conversations, hidden in an inconspicuous area of the house. The key in all this is that you do not give the impression of threatening privacy, trying for example to arise unexpectedly. In this case, it is likely to contain even more
2 – Be present for her. If your daughter dejected, ask her how she is. If she did not want to confide in you, do not take umbrage and be the shoulder to cry it will look for the appropriate time. Keep in mind some good advice to be able to help. Remind him that your door is always open, you were a teenager you too and you have survived this period. Perhaps it has still not want to talk, but she just needs a shoulder to cry on. Be there for her at that time also, without trying to force her to verbalize what’s wrong.
3 – Remind her how important she is to you and how you like it. She can say she finds those tacky words and pretend she hated those little moments, but you do not know what is going on in his head. These affectionate words are perhaps using this to hold. Remind her how special she is for you and list all the good qualities it possesses. Do not do this too often at the risk of choking. However, follow your instincts and express these feelings regularly enough for her to understand that you sincerely think.
Many teenagers do not feel reassured. Also, make your daughter feel better in it is concerned. Do not criticize her appearance, do not ask him to lose weight or do not try to force her to attend the first class. If your daughter has the impression that you are not satisfied with what it is, wither it deems it of herself.
Part 1 of 3: Help her to feel loved and understood
1 – Give him space. Over time, your teenager will have less and less desire to spend time with you. Do not be upset because of this, this behavior is natural, there is nothing personal in the vast majority of cases. Your daughter Search more independence and unconsciously wants to prove its maturity those around him. It may now close the door of her room when she was not in the habit earlier or it can have private telephone conversations, hidden in an inconspicuous area of the house. The key in all this is that you do not give the impression of threatening privacy, trying for example to arise unexpectedly. In this case, it is likely to contain even more
2 – Be present for her. If your daughter dejected, ask her how she is. If she did not want to confide in you, do not take umbrage and be the shoulder to cry it will look for the appropriate time. Keep in mind some good advice to be able to help. Remind him that your door is always open, you were a teenager you too and you have survived this period. Perhaps it has still not want to talk, but she just needs a shoulder to cry on. Be there for her at that time also, without trying to force her to verbalize what’s wrong.
3 – Remind her how important she is to you and how you like it. She can say she finds those tacky words and pretend she hated those little moments, but you do not know what is going on in his head. These affectionate words are perhaps using this to hold. Remind her how special she is for you and list all the good qualities it possesses. Do not do this too often at the risk of choking. However, follow your instincts and express these feelings regularly enough for her to understand that you sincerely think.
Many teenagers do not feel reassured. Also, make your daughter feel better in it is concerned. Do not criticize her appearance, do not ask him to lose weight or do not try to force her to attend the first class. If your daughter has the impression that you are not satisfied with what it is, wither it deems it of herself.
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